Don't fear the enemy that attacks you, but fear the fake friend that hugs you

2075-05-19

Don't fear the enemy that attacks you, but fear the fake friend that hugs you

It’s true that if enemies are approaching, you can be ready to protect you from them in time but if your friend deceives and stabs you. It happens time and again in your life. A false promise given to anyone but not to keep to it is more or less like stabbing you. Being alive also sometime someone dies in your judgment. Therefore, no one should try to die own self. Sometime he can be the victim of the time. He can save himself from being treacherous keeping his words clearly in time. In the same way, distance tests a horse's strength. Time reveals a person's character. It's not necessary to tell other how you are. But your performance reveals how you seem. Action speaks louder than words. Hence, never be hopeless thinking that if an opportunity escapes from your hands, a better opportunity will be waiting for you.    

Don't worry about what you are getting. Don't show your anger to anyone else. If you keep something else inside you, it may rot you like a rotten pumpkin. If you show your anger to anyone else think of the consequences twice. You should not take a credit to the work that you didn't. If anyone who can do but does not do and the credit takes that was done by other is regrettable. Hence, everyone should try to be independent. An independent being can take his decision for him and his institution as well. An independent being should be like Sudama, God Krishna's childhood friend. Everyone has to be able to know that how Sudama was able to fulfill his hunger and the entire hungry people of the world only after offering half piece of rice to the God Krishna. It means Hate cannot drive hate: only love can do, Martin Luther King said. Siddhartha Gautam became Buddha only after accepting the insult given by anyone. Love is the greatest virtue of human beings. It is the love that changes a minor human being as the man of all.

David Allin said- you can do anything but not everything. Whatever you like you can do but at the moment it’s true that everything is not in your hand. It is beyond you. How long time everyone believes you. How long time you can hide the sun. It's true that darkness cannot drive out darkness only light can do that, said Martin Luther King. What's that light? Maybe the truth. Can anyone hide the truth? Indeed, not.  It's possible to hide for few seconds, months, years but not forever. It reveals one day. Therefore, no one should run after the falsehood and should raise the voice for the righteousness. If not what you gained for years, it will be decayed in no time. Time is the mightiest of all. It's the time that changes you. It's the time that makes you a miner or the mightiest. N one should proud of his power and pelf. They are perishable. They are not long lasting. Even the shadow of own leaves when the darkness approaches. Hence, everyone should follow the path of righteousness that can let you live in your smile when you are deserted by everyone too. Every human being should not be like a true friend and stabs his friend in his necessity. It will be regrettable forever.

Chandra Kant Pandit

Pashupati Mitra Secondary School

Chabahil, Kathmandu, Nepal