Life without bitter experience is incomplete

28 October 2016 Life without bitter experience is incomplete We human being are superior to other animals in the world. It is believed that human life is the most important life among various incarnations. Life is the bundle of experience. Who you are, is the result of your experience. If you don’t have bitter experience, you may not have true life. When there is laughter there is crying too. If there is smile, there is anger too. If there is good, bad is there. You cannot be happy forever it’s because you cannot be mentally healthy. The psychoanalyst believes that every human being has mental disorder. It means he is not totally mentally healthy. This is the cause that makes you excited on a trivial issue. I don’t know how you feel if your dearest one is against you. The one who had positive attitude towards you is misreading you. If he blames you on the issue that you were not involved. The one who had great respect in the past and begin to say ‘ta’ or other hatred words towards you. How you feel if someone is waiting to spite on your face on the matter you were not involved. I think you may be shattered or filled with anger. But if you ask me, I will take it normally. It’s because every human being is selfish and runs after the greed. Those who run after the greed should be compelled to regret in future. Even the Alexander Great who had mostly won the world asked his helpers or acquainted to show leaving his hands on the open sky. What it is. I think it was his regret. What he did was inhuman activity. During the war so many were killed and made homeless or deserted. In the end, he had to die. While dying no one takes anything with him but his deed is alive. A good one is remembered and the world mourns his death but the bad when he dies people feel happy. This is life. Mould your life as your wish not as other suggested you. If you judge an object using a single lens is always incomplete. Why? It’s because you cannot see the other side of the object if you do not turn around yourself or make the object move around you. To know happiness you have to know what sorrow is. To know the clever one, you have to know the dull one too. To know the success, you have to know what the failure is. We human beings get failed many times but get success a little or a few times. Why? Success is achieved if there is sacrifice, if there is devotion, if there is regular effort. But to be failure if you ignore, it’s enough. So is the political matter too. In the past who were in the street are now in power. What they used to blame to the authority are being blamed for the same reason. Mr Prachanda used to blame the king and others as dictator, nonsense, irrational or so many words against them. He used to deliver speech for the subalterns, the voiceless ones. But now he is surrounded by the security forces all the time. Is he familiar to the suffering of the people in the street or huts. I don’t think so. Why? If he does, why is he among the security forces? Security forces keep him away from the realism. He may say, ‘Haven’t you had chicken’s soup in your meal?” if anyone informs him that he is suffering from hunger. Therefore, a true leader should be able to come out of security forces. Security forces cannot save you. But the public can. I felt shy to be a Nepali when I read and heard about Prachanda’s grandson. He asked the media men to convey his message to his grandfather that he had neither his birth certificate nor his mother had marriage certificate. If Prachanda cannot take care his grandson and daughter in law what he can do for the sake of Nepal and Nepali. If it was wrong why he didn’t punish to the person who defamed him. Don’t worry to the blames that is over your head if you are fair. In the long run the blamer has to suffer till the end of life. He cannot be happy. He has to spend time regretting himself. It will be better to be calm rather than aggressive. Only the coward carries the weapon forgetting that the mightier may rob it and use it to finish him. See the Royal Massacre in Nepal. If you have belief in you, you don’t need any weapon. If you are honest, every trail is safe for you. Life without experiencing pain and suffering cannot be a human life. The pain you realize is different to the pain you bear. You can guess how painful is labour pain if you are a male. But if you are a woman who has already delivered the baby can have true pain. It's a life. The siblings smile and babbling compel the mother forget the pain she bore. Chandra Kanta Pandit Lekhnath-15, Kaski

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